AN EPISTLE OF JUDAISKY TO AFRICA
CHAPTER 12, VERSE 8
MY HUSBAND IS MISBEHAVING.
After all the comments, I learnt most men aren’t happy with the way they misbehave as well as women too.
I want you to pay rapt attention as we unveil the secret behind all this.
From the beginning, when you said, yes I will marry you, this means you accepted him the way he was/is and before he professed love to you and also marriage, it means he has or will make do with the way you have been treating him.
But now, in the marriage, things begin to fall apart, husbands started misbehaving and wives in their part too.
As a wife, have you ever asked yourself why he changed?
He loves you, you know but he just changed overnight and you turned a village town carrier, broadcasting his indeficiency.
Have you ever ask yourself why he likes going out to make it out with other woman even when he claims to love you dearly? Don’t get it twisted because as a wife, you are responsible to anyhow your house is.
Your hauband or the men may seem to be bossy and claiming the head of the family but I tell you, as a wife or woman, you are indirectly the one in charge.
Men seem to be too demanding when it comes to bedroom duties but you won’t grant them access all the time because you are either tired or this and men found it difficult to control their sexual urge, this lead them to poke eyes out there.
Prostitutes and mistresses don’t complain, infact they give it to them to the fullest.
And here, you as the wife is complaining over your own duty.
My sister, if you don’t give it to him, another person you consider a stranger will help you out.
You don’t always get her food ready on time and when he complains, you pick it up from there, giving him reasons why he shouldn’t bark on you.
You see, prostitutes or those that desire your husband don’t complain, they pet them like kings and that boost their morale to commit all to them.
When they come back home late, maybe drunk or did anything silly, you chase them away, you chastise him even before the presence of your neighbours and kids, you tell him how irresponsible he has been, you talk to him in all manners.
My sister, your competitors out there don’t do that, they firstly bring him home, clean him., offer him food and allow him have a sound sleep then when he wakes up and he is in his right mind, they present the issue with a soft mind or even romantically, then they settle whatever resulted to such act.
Your competitors out there call them sweet and romantic names, they play with them, share their pains and joy, they even take them out and make them feel loved but you, you always complain since he married you, the hadn’t even bought you this or that. The sweet words you used to call him now disappeared because you are now the wife and no jupiter can change it.
All these irritate men. Or who wants to marry a bondage, someone that nags, a bad cook, boring, unromantic and pragmatic wife, gossiper, irresponsible and indecent wife? You know the answer.
Now let’s play a game.
If your husband or your lover has been misbehaving, close your eyes and take the pain to apply all the listed things here, do to him the way his mistress or those that have taken his attention away from you will do.
You will see the result will be mind blowing. And when all is well, don’t forget to show me love (winks)
Don’t break your relationship out of ignorant because even the Bible says, MY PEOPLE PERISH FOR LACK OF WISDOM.
The ball is now in your court, play it safe.
Till I cross your path again_
I hang my pen 🖋
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